tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post3571483373442960735..comments2024-03-29T05:22:07.528-05:00Comments on Bubby and Bean ::: Living Creatively: Pregnancy Complications and the Current State of Things (+ Wild Eyes Giveaway Winners)Melissa at bubbyandbean.comhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13529482206467186418noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-76785210683759623622013-12-30T13:29:23.785-06:002013-12-30T13:29:23.785-06:00I was happy to see that you had a beautiful, healt...I was happy to see that you had a beautiful, healthy baby girl. I had end-of-pregnancy drama myself. My water broke 3 days before my due date and it was obvious that Maddie had passed meconium. My water broke at 8:30pm on Tuesday, and I went to the hospital at 5:30am on Weds. My contractions got slower, so I was put on Pitocin (ouch). I tried for a med-free labor, but after about 22 hours I needed pain killers. I slept from about 8pm to 11pm on Weds, then pushed from 11pm to 2am on Thurs, and after 30 hours of labor Maddie was born. She didn't cry and was immediately rushed to the lung specialists. She had inhaled a tiny piece of meconium and it caused her lung to collapse. She was blue and took tiny gasps of air. They rushed her into the NICU and she got a chest tube to inflate her lung. She was there for three days, and now she's 2 and fully healthy. Have fun with your new love! she is beautiful. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13306924326957338246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-10392782334679628652013-12-23T10:41:31.097-06:002013-12-23T10:41:31.097-06:00hey lady-i won't go into the details of our bu...hey lady-i won't go into the details of our bug's birth-but needless to say, our 70 year old midwife told us on a scale of 1-10, my pregnancy was a 9. Her birth didnt go as planned either, but in the end, (in regards to labor and delivery) its only 1 day of your life. 1 day. somehow that mantra and meditation got me through. And even with all the issues with our pregnancy & birth, it wasn't really that bad! Even a c-section recovery was easier than a dental extraction a year prior. No matter what happens during the process of birth, you get a beautiful baby out of the deal! As impossible as it may seem, staying positive, and relaxed these final days are key. Quiet your mind and spirit and all will be as it should be. She will come when she is supposed to-you are blessed with Robbie and all your family so close by. Ask for the help you need with life's details. This is a momentous time! xoxoxox<br />CelesteAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-54147786883249927702013-12-22T00:02:40.639-06:002013-12-22T00:02:40.639-06:00I totally understand how freaked out you must be. ...I totally understand how freaked out you must be. That is a lot to handle, especially when it all comes at you at once like that. I am currently 30 weeks, and recently had to go straight to the hospital after my blood pressure was extremely high. I went through the same tests as you did and fortunately everything came back negative for Preeclampsia. I am now being monitored very closely, and I'm sure bead rest is in the near future for me. What keeps me positive is knowing that my little guy is very healthy and he will soon be with us. This is my first pregnancy (like you) and I am trying to not let these things bring me down. It sounds like you have a great support system with you - I'm sure everything will turn out great! Elizabethhttp://www.prettyshinyobject.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-79855947888562551652013-12-21T20:59:51.264-06:002013-12-21T20:59:51.264-06:00Hello! this is Heather, Mitchell's (J.Crabbit&...Hello! this is Heather, Mitchell's (J.Crabbit's wife)....He is right that our first pregnancy was scary, but we made it! We have even chosen to go through the whole process 2 more times. We would both tell you that our 3 boys are 210% worth every worry, unexpected moment, and unknown moment we have had. Best wishes to you and your sweet girl! xoxo Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16219365812505274711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-14240625729675844972013-12-21T18:20:13.563-06:002013-12-21T18:20:13.563-06:00I had high blood pressure in my last few weeks too...I had high blood pressure in my last few weeks too and I also had to do the monitoring and pee collection and bed rest. It sucked! Childbirth was almost a breeze in comparison. You will do great. I had an induction at 38.5 weeks and all went well. Ginnynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-29854046626887051212013-12-21T18:19:18.610-06:002013-12-21T18:19:18.610-06:00Many hugs and well wishes coming your way! I didn&...Many hugs and well wishes coming your way! I didn't have blood pressure problems, but went into pre-term labor with my second at 27 weeks. I was going through an exceptionally stressful time in my life - we were suddenly and very unexpectedly homeless after our apartment was discovered to be infested with black mold. The owners played down and dirty and tried to cover it up...when we called them out on it, they threw us out. I was 6 months pregnant at the time, and my anxiety went through the roof, which probably lead to my labor starting so early. They were able to get the contractions under control, but I remember being so worried and anxious all the time. I was put on a bed rest regime similar to yours, and it was almost like lying there in bed with nothing to do, just kept me focusing on all of our issues. It's such a catch 22. I would suggest trying to keep occupied with something you can enjoy doing from bed - sometime kinda mindless and "easy" that you can sort of lose yourself in. My mind runs wild when left to its own devices sometimes and that just compounds my worrying. I hope that everything will go smoothly for you and that your test results come back good each day. Hang in there, mama! You've got this. :)<br /><br />Lots of love,<br />Jessica @ beingbarlow.com Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00500746608852096433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-39318948239332507742013-12-21T03:54:08.103-06:002013-12-21T03:54:08.103-06:00Sending many positive thoughts your way. I hope ev...Sending many positive thoughts your way. I hope everything turns out fine and you and the baby are safe. Don't worry!Kanelstrandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00656658673748250383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-49985933961185536282013-12-21T01:06:03.327-06:002013-12-21T01:06:03.327-06:00Thank you all so much for your comments (and all o...Thank you all so much for your comments (and all of the emails you sent as well - I will do my best to respond). I ended up back in the hospital for more tests today. At first I was told we'd induce Sunday. Now we're waiting. I'll keep you all updated. Thank you again for sharing your stories and for your kind words! xo, Melissa Melissa at bubbyandbean.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13529482206467186418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-8947394787712459112013-12-20T22:43:30.172-06:002013-12-20T22:43:30.172-06:00I just had my daughter 10 weeks ago, and went thro...I just had my daughter 10 weeks ago, and went through this exact thing including being admitted for blood pressure monitoring at the hospital one day following a regular check up at my ob. I also had to do the 24 hour urine collection twice. It was very stressful at the time. It was important to me to make it to at least 37 weeks. I was induced in my 39th week. Besides a VERY long labor that turned into a c-section, there were no further complications from the high blood pressure I had at the end of my pregnancy. My daughter was fine, and my blood pressure went back to normal immediately. Try to stay calm. Your doctor and the nurses will take good care of you! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-7430467045244282122013-12-20T20:54:14.664-06:002013-12-20T20:54:14.664-06:00Keeping you, baby, and your husband in my thoughts...Keeping you, baby, and your husband in my thoughts and prayers! I don't have any kids yet but I have so much admiration for anyone who goes through childbirth, especially with complications. You are going to do great. =)annahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08811073619396941925noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-8610687168034260162013-12-20T20:38:11.970-06:002013-12-20T20:38:11.970-06:00What a scare! Praying for a safe delivery for you...What a scare! Praying for a safe delivery for you and your precious Baby Bean.<br />All the rest is small stuff. Really. In the big scheme of things -- small stuff. Hugs.pasqueflowerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17726376425071322993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-60336092071577001312013-12-20T14:41:24.495-06:002013-12-20T14:41:24.495-06:00Oh my gosh how scary!!!! You are strong and you c...Oh my gosh how scary!!!! You are strong and you can do it!Ginahttp://www.ginapincushion.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-75551885119878752772013-12-20T13:59:12.730-06:002013-12-20T13:59:12.730-06:00Sending prayers your way.Sending prayers your way.cmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05440269729903535827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-88208672179952728902013-12-20T13:46:00.307-06:002013-12-20T13:46:00.307-06:00My son turned breech *a month* before he was due. ...My son turned breech *a month* before he was due. I was planning on a home birth and my midwives asked how I felt about having a breech home delivery. I naively said "fine" and they looked very uncomfortable. I was very set on having my baby at home. Once I learned more about breech natural births, I realized it was very important to try to correct this problem. After many upside down evenings (imagine an inversion board of sorts) and one miraculous acupuncture appointment (he turned back into the correct position after that appointment), we had a successful natural home birth. In conversation with the acupuncturist, he suggested that it is pretty natural for a baby to turn breech when it senses a lot of anxiety from the mother. I can even recall the moment when I think he turned breech. So I believe if you keep a strong mind and stay determined you can overcome perceived complications. <br /><br />Also, keep in mind that conventional doctors are hyper-sensitive. Even if they reveal news in a very urgent, this-is-an-emergency, pressing manner... you do have time to digest it all and make your own decisions. Successful births have obviously been happening for a very long time, before we had every tool under the sun to micro-analyze every single change, so keep in mind that your body is designed to birth a baby (even with complications). <br /><br />With complications aside, two weeks before the due date the "how am I going to manage labor and birth" really set in. And at that moment I decided I was going to meditate through my labor. I know meditation is different for different people. For me, that turned into picking a focal point and not wavering. So I literally stared at a knot of wood in our bed frame for most of my labor. Any time, any thoughts of uncomfortableness tried to creep in, I went back to the knot of wood. Doing that made a huge difference for me, especially considering that I was in labor for a very long time. Toward the very end, things changed, as I was moving around more. But with my husband as my rock we made it through the entire birth at home. <br /><br />That's really only a fraction of my birth story but I hope it helps you or one of your readers! You're doing a great job and just remember you have everything you need to successfully bring this baby into this world. :) Junenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-56177621400204323382013-12-20T13:33:22.602-06:002013-12-20T13:33:22.602-06:00Hi Melissa, I am a long time lurker but just had t...Hi Melissa, I am a long time lurker but just had to comment on this. At the end of Feb I went to my 34 week check up and ended up being admitted with what was originally suspected to be pre-eclampsia but turned out to be gestational hypertension. In the 10 days since my last check up I had gained about 9lbs and because I had consistently lost weight in my pregnancy it was all water and swelling. My partner left work immediately as I was in the hospital hysterical and there was a question of induction immediately. When all my tests came back clear for protein and that baby and the placenta was okay things began to calm down. I was kept in hospital for a week and started medication for my BP. I was discharged on bed rest and had to go to the hospital twice a week. At home I was monitoring my own BP 4 times a day and my urine too (I am a nurse so they were happy to let me do this). From 39 weeks, I was in the hospital every morning for a CTG and my doctors were happy to let me go to 10 days over before discussing induction. <br /><br />The night after my due date I became really unwell and my BP spiked. I was having headaches that were coming out through my eyes and pains in my right side. It began about 10pm and it was a Sunday night and as I was in the hospital at 8 the following morning I went to bed. When I went for the CTG I told them about the previous night, they checked my BP and admitted me for induction. I was in labour for 12 hours and my little man arrived safe and sound and I was fine too. I was on medication for 6 weeks after the birth as it takes that long for the BP to return to normal. My little man is 8 months old now and both of us are completely fine.<br /><br />I know how frightened you are now, as I was too, but hopefully the bed rest will help you and baby get another few weeks before birth. I found it really difficult to stay in bed but after a few days of checking my BP every time I moved I realised how high it was getting so I began to rest more. I read a lot of books in those 5 weeks. <br /><br />I hope everything turns out okay for you xxx<br />Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13313190560944121019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-10019818409936339972013-12-20T12:13:33.056-06:002013-12-20T12:13:33.056-06:00I'm sorry to hear you're having such a har...I'm sorry to hear you're having such a hard time right now, but it sounds like your doctor is doing a good job monitoring you. A couple weeks before my due date I went in for a check-up and ended up having a c-section THAT day….surprise! But everything turned out great. Hang in there and stay positive. I'd say don't worry but you're a mom (already) so that just comes with the territory…just feel the worry and let it go. Love and light to you.Melhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16464457008473010976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-15780123148995648912013-12-20T11:42:31.958-06:002013-12-20T11:42:31.958-06:00sending good vibes your way! I know how stressful ...sending good vibes your way! I know how stressful it can be, hang in there girl everything will be fine :)<br />xoxoAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171963446458514102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-71809656603848511152013-12-20T11:12:38.981-06:002013-12-20T11:12:38.981-06:00Melissa,
First of all, I want to say that you'...Melissa, <br />First of all, I want to say that you're doing a GREAT job! Hang in there. Fear is not always a bad thing. I'd probably worry if you weren't scared. It's OK to be scared and anxious, especially with the complications. Just don't let the fear overcome you. Remember: You are stronger than your fears.<br />I'm so glad that your mom was able to drive there to be with you, and I'm glad that Robbie's home and by your side now. Even if you have to welcome baby girl a little sooner than expected, she will come when she's ready. Thoughts & prayers are with you, sweetie!!!2justByouhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06569440913966464021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-24608621277008958512013-12-20T09:54:37.977-06:002013-12-20T09:54:37.977-06:00Oh my goodness! Sending many thoughts for a safe a...Oh my goodness! Sending many thoughts for a safe and healthy delivery! I'm glad Robbie got home and will be there when your little girl decides to make her appearance. As hard as I'm sure it is, stay on that couch and follow the doctor's orders! Memories for Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09677127617656258362noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-37309826913953078352013-12-20T09:38:18.730-06:002013-12-20T09:38:18.730-06:00Thinking of you Melissa! I'm so sorry you'...Thinking of you Melissa! I'm so sorry you're having such a hard time right now. Focus on you and don't worry about the shop or blog, we'll all still be here when you return. :) *hugs*Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12737888630932252314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-42612609966846251792013-12-20T09:02:24.344-06:002013-12-20T09:02:24.344-06:00Praying that everything goes okay! I'm sure it...Praying that everything goes okay! I'm sure it will all be fine... deep breath, and know that even though our bodies can act up sometimes, you are in good hands with knowledgeable doctors and family support :) Hang in there!Life Into Wordshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09663847696590563688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-57737590589204302452013-12-20T08:41:11.067-06:002013-12-20T08:41:11.067-06:00I'm so sorry to hear about the complications y...I'm so sorry to hear about the complications you're facing. Sending lots of positive thoughts your way and hope you feel comfort soon.Caitlinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15778097267644699690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-73458646856396691642013-12-20T08:37:53.776-06:002013-12-20T08:37:53.776-06:00Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, Melissa.
(...Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, Melissa.<br />((hugs))Dunihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14273071467750510363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6408906677306311135.post-66532397294809313322013-12-20T07:32:12.882-06:002013-12-20T07:32:12.882-06:00I wont get too specific, but My wife had a whole s...I wont get too specific, but My wife had a whole slew of complications with our first, and also found herself on strict bed rest too. I remember quite well how hard it was for her to stay calm, and relax (which is what the doc wanted) but eventually she was able to. Just STAY OFF WEBMD!!! In February, Ashton will be 10. Despite all the craziness, and even a week in the NICU, everything turned out just fine. Glad Robbie was able to get back! We will keep you in our prayers for a smooth birth, and a healthy happy baby. :)J.Crabbithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07188400399317102528noreply@blogger.com